Resilience in Repetition: How Movement Teaches us Patience and Self-Trust
- Vanessa Harris
- Sep 22
- 3 min read
There are mornings when I lace up my shoes and step into the gym to teach yet another
class. The bikes are lined up, the mats are waiting, the music rests quietly in the background. I’ve guided people through these movements so many times that it feels familiar, almost automatic. Some days I feel energized and ready, other days I’m tired or distracted. But as soon as the movement begins, something shifts in me, and in the people I’m guiding.
Repetition has a way of showing us who we are. It strips away the novelty and leaves behind something quieter, something more honest.
The Nature of Repetition
In fitness, repetition is the foundation. The barbell only gets lighter after hundreds of lifts. Endurance only grows after kilometres have been logged, one step at a time. Teaching spin has taught me that even music becomes a form of repetition, The steady beat reminding the body to keep going, even when it feels hard.
Progress doesn’t usually arrive in a single breakthrough. It shows itself in subtler ways. A student who once struggled through squats now finishes steady and strong. Someone who couldn’t hold a plank last week manages to stay with it a little longer. These are the quiet markers of change.
Building Resilience Through Small Acts
Resilience isn’t about going harder every time. It’s about showing up, even when you’d rather not. I’ve taught classes when my energy was low, when the day felt long, when I questioned if I had much to give. But each time, the act of beginning carried me through. And by the end, I was reminded that resilience is built in the simple decision to keep going.
For the participants too, resilience shows up in the steady return. Coming back to yoga even when their hamstrings feel tight. Hopping on the bike for another ride even after a long workday. Choosing to show up instead of sleeping in. These small acts don’t look heroic, but they build a strength that carries into every part of life.
Patience in the Process
Perhaps the hardest part of movement is patience. A new client might ask, “How long until I see results?” The honest answer is that it depends and it takes time. Adaptation doesn’t come in a week. Flexibility doesn’t appear in a single stretch. Strength builds slowly, as the body adapts to repetition.
I’ve learned this in my own practice too. There were months when an arm balance felt impossible, until one day it didn’t. There were spin classes where I wanted to quit halfway, until eventually I could finish strong. Patience isn’t easy, but it’s part of the process. Repetition asks us to let go of urgency and trust that showing up matters, even when change is still hidden.
Repetition as Self-Trust
Every time I return to the gym, I am proving to myself that I can be trusted. Every time a participant rolls out their mat or joins a class, they are proving it too.
Self-trust is not built in declarations or motivation speeches. It’s built in action. In lifting the weights when you said you would. In going for the walk you promised yourself. In returning, not for perfection, but for consistency.
When you can trust yourself in the body, it becomes easier to trust yourself in the rest of life in relationships, in work, in the choices that ask for your courage.
Reflection
Resilience is not a single achievement. It’s the rhythm of training. The repetition of steps, breaths, lifts, and stretches. The quiet decision to begin again, even when you’re not sure you want to.
The next time you repeat a workout, a walk, or a familiar sequence, notice how your body remembers. These aren’t just repetitions. They are reminders that you are resilient, that you can trust yourself, and that strength is already building beneath the surface.
So I leave you with this question:
What’s one movement you can return to this week, not to chase progress, but to honour your own resilience?
With lightness and curiosity,
Vanessa

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